I always fall for people who are lacking many, if not most, of the “ideal qualities” I look for in a significant other. Honestly, I really love that.
I feel like it proves that people can strip away my shallow desires & make me appreciative of what else there is in a person. Whether it be a sense of humor I don’t come across too often or a way of thinking I never really considered, I love meeting people with a trait that is their own & that they can work like no other.
Maybe that’s what I truly consider an “ideal quality” in someone: The ability to show me what’s really important, what’s truly attractive, & most importantly, what I actually want.